| According to a
study conducted by the Virginia
Polytechnic Institute, after family,
friends, and eulogy, flowers rank
first among those who have lost a
family member or friend as the most
meaningful aspect of funerals.
Furthermore, at a time of loss,
recipients rank flowers and sympathy
cards as the most meaningful of
gifts. Those surveyed believe
flowers and plants are a critical
component of funerals, providing a
necessary diversion, something to
talk about, and a bright environment
at a somber time.
Asked to identify gifts and
memorials that helped a great deal
with grief, a majority of surveyed
respondents named flowers and
plants. Respondents also agreed
strongly that looking at the cards
to see who sent flowers is a
comfort.
Flowers show respect for the
deceased, as well as loving support
of family and friends, especially
when you cannot be there in person.
Flowers also make for a more
pleasant atmosphere, helping those
present feel as comfortable and
welcome as possible. With flowers at
a service, you help create a lasting
and beautiful memory for those who
have gathered to mourn the loss of
someone dear.
Even when a charity or other
organization has been selected to
receive financial contributions in
memory of the deceased, flowers are
considered by most to be an
appropriate expression of additional
sympathy and support.
Flowers can reflect many
religious beliefs, including eternal
life and rebirth. Your floral
consultant is well aware of the
differences between faiths and will
assist you in this regard.
There is a wide variety of floral
tributes for every budget. Among
them: bud vases; table arrangements;
standing arrangements; sprays;
casket drapes; wreaths; planters;
and other designs which reflect a
more personal aspect of the
deceased, such as favored flowers,
colors, and styles. Here, too, your
professional florist can advise you.
Among floral sympathy
expressions, distinctive fresh
flower designs and garden basket
planters are becoming increasingly
popular as they may be easily
transported home after the funeral
to serve as a comfort to the family.
Other popular and thoughtful gifts
are fruit and food baskets sent
directly to the family at home. |