Contrary to popular belief, Mother's Day was not conceived and fine-tuned in the boardroom of Hallmark. The earliest tributes to mothers date back to the annual spring festival the Greeks dedicated to Rhea, the mother of many deities, and to the offerings ancient Romans made to their Great Mother of Gods, Cybele. Christians celebrated this festival on the fourth Sunday in Lent in honor of Mary, mother of Christ. In England this holiday was expanded to include all mothers and was called Mothering Sunday.
Origin of Mother's Day goes back to
the era of ancient Greek and Romans. But the roots
of Mother's Day history can also be traced in UK
where a Mothering Sunday was celebrated much before
the festival saw the light of the day in US.
However, the celebration of the festival as it is
seen today is a recent phenomenon and not even a
hundred years old. Thanks to the hard work of the
pioneering women of their times, Julia Ward Howe and
Anna Jarvis that the day came into existence. Today
the festival of Mothers day is celebrated across 46
countries (though on different dates) and is a
hugely popular affair. Millions of people across the
globe take the day as an opportunity to honor their
mothers, thank them for their efforts in giving them
life, raising them and being their constant support
and well wisher.
Earliest History of Mothers Day
The earliest history of Mothers Day dates back to
the ancient annual spring festival the Greeks
dedicated to maternal goddesses. The Greeks used the
occasion to honor Rhea, wife of Cronus and the
mother of many deities of Greek mythology.
Ancient Romans, too, celebrated a spring festival,
called Hilaria dedicated to Cybele, a mother
goddess. It may be noted that ceremonies in honour
of Cybele began some 250 years before Christ was
born. The celebration made on the Ides of March by
making offerings in the temple of Cybele lasted for
three days and included parades, games and
masquerades. The celebrations were notorious enough
that followers of Cybele were banished from Rome.
Early Christians celebrated a Mother's Day of sorts
during the festival on the fourth Sunday of Lent in
honor of the Virgin Mary, the Mother of Christ. In
England the holiday was expanded to include all
mothers. It was then called Mothering Sunday.
History of Mother's Day: Mothering Sunday
The more recent history of Mothers Day dates back to
1600s in England. Here a Mothering Sunday was
celebrated annually on the fourth Sunday of Lent
(the 40 day period leading up to Easter) to honor
mothers. After a prayer service in church to honor
Virgin Mary, children brought gifts and flowers to
pay tribute to their own mothers.
On the occasion, servants, apprentices and other
employees staying away from their homes were
encouraged by their employers to visit their mothers
and honor them. Traditionally children brought with
them gifts and a special fruit cake or fruit-filled
pastry called a simnel. Yugoslavs and people in
other nations have observed similar days.
Custom of celebrating Mothering Sunday died out
almost completely by the 19th century. However, the
day came to be celebrated again after World War II,
when American servicemen brought the custom and
commercial enterprises used it as an occasion for
sales.
History of Mother's Day: Julia Ward Howe
The idea of official celebration of Mothers day in
US was first suggested by Julia Ward Howe in 1872.
An activist, writer and poet Julia shot to fame with
her famous Civil War song, "Battle Hymn of the
Republic". Julia Ward Howe suggested that June 2 be
annually celebrated as Mothers Day and should be
dedicated to peace. She wrote a passionate appeal to
women and urged them to rise against war in her
famous Mothers Day Proclamation, written in Boston
in 1870. She also initiated a Mothers' Peace Day
observance on the second Sunday in June in Boston
and held the meeting for a number of years. Julia
tirelessly championed the cause of official
celebration of Mothers Day and declaration of
official holiday on the day. Her idea spread but was
later replaced by the Mothers' Day holiday now
celebrated in May.
History of Mother's Day: Anna Jarvis
Anna Jarvis is recognized as the Founder of Mothers
Day in US. Though Anna Jarvis never married and
never had kids, she is also known as the Mother of
Mothers Day, an apt title for the lady who worked
hard to bestow honor on all mothers.
Anna Jarvis got the inspiration of celebrating
Mothers Day from her own mother Mrs. Anna Marie
Reeves Jarvis in her childhood. An activist and
social worker, Mrs. Jarvis used to express her
desire that someday someone must honor all mothers,
living and dead, and pay tribute to the
contributions made by them.
A loving daughter, Anna never forgot her mothers
word and when her mother died in 1905, she resolved
to fulfill her mothers desire of having a mothers
day. Growing negligent attitude of adult Americans
towards their mothers and a desire to honor her
mothers soared her ambitions.
To begin with Anna, send Carnations in the church
service in Grafton, West Virginia to honor her
mother. Carnations were her mothers favorite flower
and Anna felt that they symbolized a mothers pure
love. Later Anna along with her supporters wrote
letters to people in positions of power lobbying for
the official declaration of Mothers Day holiday. The
hard work paid off. By 1911, Mother's Day was
celebrated in almost every state in the Union and on
May 8, 1914 President Woodrow Wilson signed a Joint
Resolution designating the second Sunday in May as
Mother's Day.
History of Mother's Day: Present Day
Celebrations
Today Mothers Day is celebrated in several countries
including US, UK, India, Denmark, Finland, Italy,
Turkey, Australia, Mexico, Canada, China, Japan and
Belgium. People take the day as an opportunity to
pay tribute to their mothers and thank them for all
their love and support. The day has become hugely
popular and in several countries phone lines witness
maximum traffic. There is also a tradition of
gifting flowers, cards and others gift to mothers on
the Mothers Day. The festival has become
commercialized to a great extent. Florists, card
manufacturers and gift sellers see huge business
potential in the day and make good money through a
rigorous advertising campaign.
It is unfortunate to note that Ms Anna Jarvis, who
devoted her life for the declaration of Mothers Day
holiday was deeply hurt to note the huge
commercialization of the day.
